Episode 23: 3 Ways Successful Membership Owners THINK Differently
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Over the last 8 years I've worked closely with business owners whose memberships generate the majority of their income, to the tune of multiple 6- or 7-figures per year.
In this episode, I'm sharing how they think about their membership (plus one thing they often forget!) and how you can apply these perspectives to grow your recurring revenue in 2025 and beyond.
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Welcome back. I feel like this is the time of year when weāre all either a little bit sick of summer or a little bit sick of winter.
If you're in the Southern Hemisphere like me, I am recording this from under a heated blanket. Our winters are very mild, and if I were in the winter sun right now, Iād be very happy. But none of the homes in Australia are particularly well insulated (itās a thing) so we all kind of sit inside our homes wearing all of these layers, even though itās not actually that cold outside.
But I was just talking to a friend in upstate New York, and she said sheād rate her summer a 6 out of 10. Itās the part of summer where itās muggy, itās sweaty, and maybe you're realizing that expectations havenāt quite lined up with reality.
Youāre not feeling so great about this season that youāre in and youāre hoping for a bit of a reset. But sometimesā¦
Sometimes, the best reset isnāt what you do, but how you think
So in todayās episode, I want to share three mindset shifts that are key to becoming (and growing as) a membership-driven business owner.
Two of these shifts are especially important if you're at the stage where you're trying to get your membership beyond that $10K/month recurring revenue mark.
And the third shift that I share at the end is something youāll need to keep practicing as your membership scales, especially when youāre working with a team and growing into that multiāsix or even seven-figure stage.
When something just isnāt clicking anymore, or when youāre feeling disconnected from your own membership, itās usually because youāre missing that third shift.
Letās get into it.
The Membership Growth Gameplan
The ideas I share in todayās episode are inspired by the work Iām doing behind the scenes with my Membership Growth Gameplan clients. If youāre not familiar with that offer, itās how we work together to grow your membership in 90-day windows.
We get clear on your priorities. Dial in your sales assets. Create new assets so youāre not reinventing the wheel every launch. Get solid on your numbers. And choose the activities that move the needle to help you grow your membership.
If you're serious about making your membership your main source of income, this is the perfect way to do it:
One thing Iāve noticed while doing this work with clients is that the decisions required to grow a membership often create friction.
Because becoming a membership-driven business ownerāwhere the primary source of income is your membershipārequires you to say yes to things you might not be used to saying yes to. And no to some things youāre used to relying on.
You have to market differently. Sell differently. Run your business differently. And lead differently inside your programs, because the way you support people in a membership is not the same as how we support people through a linear course.
I talk about this a lot in Episode 16 of the podcast, but hereās what I want to unpack today: three key shifts Iām seeing show up again and again, for both newer membership owners and those already earning multiple six or seven figures.
Shift 1: From Expert/Coach/Doer ā Activator of Action
This is an internal shift. Itās about how you run your membership behind the scenes.
Most of us donāt start our businesses with a membership. You might have been a service provider, a coach, or an educator with digital products. And so you come into your membership with that identity: someone whoās hands-on, results-oriented, deeply supportive, or ready to teach.
But where this gets tricky is that your membership is actually all about action. Itās not about filling your membersā heads with stuff.
That means if you show up wanting to solve, coach, or teach, you might find yourself overgiving and still feeling like itās not working.
Your members might be saying, āThis is great!ā⦠and then doing nothing with it.
Youāre probably frustrated. Youāre adding more content, more support, but still seeing low engagement and momentum.
Thatās a sign that this shift is needed.
You have to move from:
āHow do I teach this brilliantly?ā
To:
āHow do I get my members moving and taking action?
Your membership is in the business of behavior change.
Even your best monthly masterclass will fall flat if it doesnāt help members get something done this week or this month.
So ask yourself:
Did they walk away knowing exactly what to do next?
Did I name where they might get stuck?
Did I help them make time for the work in their actual life?
Am I designing systems to check in, offer support, and guide their action between calls?
This shift is about letting go of being the expert and instead becoming a guide for someone elseās momentum.
Shift 2: From Saying Yes to Everything ā Strategic Builder
This is the hard one.
If you're in the traction phase of growing your membership, thereās often a moment where you realize:
āI literally cannot grow this unless I say no to something else.ā
And thatās terrifying, because that āsomething elseā is often tied to reliable revenue.
Maybe itās a service, another offer, or one-off project that youāve sold before and that sells easily. You know that with just one sale, you could bring in the equivalent of 10 (or even 100) membership signups.
Thatās the tricky part because Memberships are designed for scale. So they need space, consistency, and volume. And that space doesnāt exist if your calendar is packed with short-term revenue plays.
This shift is for you if:
You feel totally maxed out and canāt imagine doing another enrollment push
You finish a launch and feel like you need 3 months to recover
You keep deprioritizing membership marketing for higher-ticket offers that you donāt actually want to be selling
Youāre trying to grow the membership, but you feel under-resourced and overwhelmed
What we do in the Gameplan Intensive is make space.
That means identifying what can be paused, stripped back, or removed. That means treating your membership as a long-term asset, and running the numbers so you can take one step back to take three steps forward.
Ask yourself:
What mix of offers do I actually want to take into the next chapter?
Which offers reflect who I am now, not just who I was a year ago?
What could change if I gave my membership 90 days of focused space?
This doesnāt mean burning your other offers. It means running an experiment and giving your membership room to succeed.
Shift 3: From Leader on the Pedestal to Being in the Arena with Your Members
This last shift tends to show up as you scale.
Maybe your membership is making $500K, $1M, or more. Youāve got a team. Youāve got systems. Youāve got SOPs. The membership is running like a machine (ā¦. mostly. ha)
But you? You feel weirdly disconnected from it.
Youāre teaching your masterclasses. Youāre showing up to the planning meetings. But the spark is gone. The energy is off. Youāre not really in it.
This happens because, as you scale, you slowly start to drift out of the work. Youāre no longer in the day-to-dayāand while thatās great for your capacity, it can lead to a slow disconnection from your members and the value youāre trying to create.
So hereās the question I ask my clients:
Are you still in the arena with your members?
If not, how can you get back in?
How can you embody the work again?
How can you keep practicing the ideas and values you want your members to modelā¦
And bring your members along for the journey with you?
It might mean:
Trying an experiment alongside your members
Showing behind the scenes of how youāre doing the work
Setting a challenge and inviting them to join you
Sharing what youāre learning in real time
This shift is about staying close to your own material, because thatās where energy and connection come back.
Getting off the pedestal and back into the arena is one of the best things you can do for both your sales on the front-end, and your retention on the back end.
Itās Time to Think and Grow Like a Membership-Driven Business Owner
If youāre ready to make your membership your main thing: to strengthen your recurring revenue and get real clarity on how to grow, the Gameplan Intensive is the perfect way for us to work together.
Weāll create a plan to grow your membership through the end of 2025 and decide on the specific moves youāll make to grow your recurring revenue.
The Gameplan includes personal support from me plus Voxer access between sessions to work through decisions and assets as you implement over the next 90 days.
You can find all the details on the Gameplan Intensive right here.
And as always, if any of these shifts struck a chord for you, Iād love to hear from you. Thanks for joining me, and Iāll see you in the next one.